DOMESTIC VIOLENCE DOESN'T EXIST
I rarely talk issues dealing with a husband and wife . all i know action and reaction are same and equal . i grew in a family setup dad and mum tho mum left us to her maker while i was young . For sure not even a drunken can come into the house and start beating you senselessly. a man who loves you and whom you have his kids cant just turn hyena and strt beating you , for real you contributed to it in one way or the other.
As a kalenjin girl their is one thing we are taught by our mothers and grandmothers to be submissive to our husbands , rare case a kalenjin lady is beaten , we believe men are the head of the family , when he talks we must listen not return to him as if he is a kid that is arrogance . whenever a man is high come down that our philosophy . but returning hush with another you will be killed.
As a woman i know No man can just beat you without your massive contribution to the war , what i belief is , wife and husband fought but the weaker sex was defeated in the war then she resulted to " i was beaten" .take example of this photos , these are ngumi sio slaps . no person can fold his ngumi kama mwenzake naye hajakunja ngumi .. to me both the man and woman have domestics they need to settle.
I repeat to be beaten you must have contributed to the war 100% , if i feel i have messed my husband ,i see him furious i say baby i am sorry please forgive me and i repeat forgive me !!!! mbona anipige ngumi? no please .. unless the man caught you with infidelity in his house he will beat you like a dog , even if you meet your husband with another woman , just tell him dear that eint fair please stop do not throw tantrums , humbleness pays . Infact himself will feel guilty how dare my wife tells me its not fair softly like that .. war with your husband cant solve anything we are weaker sex ngumi moja ya mwanaume we are down on the floor .. you men pls do not beat us but kama amekushika kukuuma just one slap and walk away .. to my judgement for several blows like this the lady was seriously returning .. mutyo mising
My views as the daughter of the soil true blood of kamasia from beautiful hills of sacho