(In fact you can as well block me )
First up, let me clarify A widow is NOT a single mother. Her husband died! Lumping her in with single mothers is an insult to his memory, to her and to her children. So don’t even think of doing it.. If you ever refer to a window whose husband died as a single mother, you should immediately pour Indian pepper into your eyes, because you deserve to weep all the tears I’m certain she has. Divorced mothers are also NOT single mothers. my self i am a daughter of a widower i love my dad single handedly brought me up from age 14
KILIMAN WOMEN SLUTS LISTEN !!!!!!
A husband or a man isnt for financial support having good career, a nice home, and great education behind you wont guarantee you peace of mind . To be sincere most of these ladies are miserable from being alone all of the time, they lack adult conversation or enjoyment as most are soo emotional and easy to annoy
A single mother is a woman who had a child outside of any established relationship. This women are so emotional in every aspect , they easily throw tantrums to every single silly mistake that need be ignored . like it or not Children of single mothers do poorly on every imaginable scale in community integration , they live free world if its a lady body is all over tattooed , pins from nose to mouth lips , if its a boy earings to trouser sagging na crazy hair makeup , indeed they have more emotional problems, experience more stress, are more likely to grow up poor, crazy behavioral problems than children who grow up with married parents. Depression, suicide, drug abuse, jail and psychiatric medications are all more common in populations of children raised by single mothers. Compared with continuously married parents, they are less emotionally supportive of their children, have fewer rules, dispense harsher discipline, are more inconsistent in dispensing discipline, provide less supervision, and engage in more conflict with their children to make sure they fit society.
This nyefunyefu that they actually work harder to try to take care of their kids than most moms do in two parent families. Granted, that’s not because they’re better people; it’s because parenting is a two person job and they’re trying to fill both roles all by their lonesome. It’s extremely tough for them to do that, which I think most single moms would acknowledge. Single mothers tend to struggle more financially and they do miss having a dad around to help with the kids, bring in more money, help soothe their frayed nerves, give second opinions, be a rock, and do all the things that men do to help make a happy home.
However, because we’re constantly talking about how wonderful single mothers are, we’re also making the option look a lot less scary than it should be to young girls — and that’s a very bad thing for them and for society.
The fact of the matter is, no matter how much a single mother loves her child or how diligent she tries to be, it’s unlikely that she’ll be able to do as good a job of raising her child as a mother and father could have done in her place. People hate to hear that, but it’s true. Incidentally, this isn’t me just talking off the top of my head. Statistics bear this out and show that many of the problems we have in our society, when you look a little deeper, are really caused by the number of out-of-wedlock births we have in this country,
Don’t get pregnant” in school or church ..we should focus on doing a lot more to discourage single motherhood. people should not they get angry about “slut shaming.” Maybe they could admit that “slut shaming” is good for everybody concerned, including the slut, because it might lead to her ceasing to act like a slut. We were better off as a country when it was considered to be disgraceful for a woman to get pregnant outside of marriage.
At the end of the day, this isn’t about blaming people, shaming people, or pointing a finger. It’s about trying to help as many people as possible live a better life. Yes, it’s better to become a single mother than to abort the baby and, yes, a child is a wonderful thing, but how many parents are hoping their child gets pregnant at 17? Most people wouldn’t wish that on their worst enemy. We need to do a better job of communicating that, we need to stop promoting single motherhood like it’s the most wonderful thing in the world, and we need to start talking more realistically and openly about what we can do to discourage single motherhood as a society.
my views as daughter of the soil true blood of kamasia from beautiful hills of sacho
